Congratulations on discovering a V6 "easter egg"!
V6s commonly leak oil from the rear valve cover gasket. How often, and how much, seems to depend on the car. Whether it can be permanently fixed, again seems to depend on the car. I've no idea why it happens, and I don't know if anyone else knows why. It's a pain in the backside, because obviously you have to take off the entire intake, to change the gasket.
There are no separate seals on the spark plug tubes, only the circular parts across the middle of the gasket. So Jinglebells is right: valve covers need to be torqued properly to make sure everything seals properly, and if a mechanic does a rubbish job then the situation will be worse. But I think leaky covers are simply a feature of the F, as I also have endless problems on my 1.5.
On the V6, as well as oil in the rear plug wells, you'll probably find it seeping out the back of the cover and down the rear of the engine block. From what I understand from chatting with other people about this, it's usually worst on the top left corner, if you're looking towards the back of the engine (so: the corner pointing towards the offside 'A' pillar)
But it's common: there's nothing especially wrong with your car. Mine did it: I changed the gasket and dumped pretty much an entire tube of sealant around the edge, and I've had no more problems so far (yes, I know that too much gasket sealant can also be a problem, but I wanted to make damn sure it didn't happen again).
Sometimes the covers warp slightly: put the cover on a table and then kneel down, look along the edge, and see if the entire edge of the cover is in contact with the surface. Try wobbling it. If you feel any rocking or wobbling at all, and the table surface is absolutely smooth, then the cover is twisted. Obviously this means you won't get a good seal. I found this with one of my 1.5 covers. If it's really bad, replace it.
Given that leakage is common on the F (1.5 and the rear bank on the V6), there's not much you can do, besides doing a thorough job when you replace the gasket. Clean everything thoroughly before you fit the new one, don't leave any gaps in the sealant, use RELIABLE sealant of the correct type (not all gasket sealants are equal!) and torque down the bolts evenly in the correct order. Make sure the sealant has set completely before you turn on the engine again.
(By the way, my visitors have gone now, so I'll have a look for those parts you were after!)
S
EDIT: By the way, from experience I don't recommend using Hylomar Blue gasket sealant - which several people have recommended to me. Hylo Blue is designed not to harden, it's ultra-messy and I've never had good results with it. I use JB Weld black RTV, which is thicker, easier to apply, and forms a much better seal. I used it on the front valve cover gasket on the V6, and so far the cover hasn't leaked a drop of oil.